Friday, April 18, 2014

THE BEST BUSINESS RULES

1. You've got to get along. If you don't have good people skills, you'll never succeed, even if you run your own business.

2. Money talks. He who has cash has leverage, and someone always has more than you do. There's rarely a deal between equals.

3. Leverage is not always about money. I.e. if you're an unsigned band that can sell out arenas, you'll get an incredible deal from the label.

4. If a deal is too good, it probably is. In other words, if the other person can't make any money, there's going to be a problem.

5. The best deals are win-wins.

6. If you're not willing to risk, if you're not willing to give something up, you're going to sit on the sidelines. Sure, the label might not offer you your dream deal, but the alternative is to go it alone, which is an option, but probably not the one you want since you entered negotiations in the first place.

7. You don't know everything, you just think you do. If you're not learning every day, you're hanging with the wrong people and not applying yourself.

8. The more powerful the person, the less the chance you'll see them at the conference. The conference is for never have and wannabes and for the purveyor to make coin. In other words, have a good time at SXSW, but the real winners are the people who put on the conference.

9. A contract does not guarantee behavior. At most it's a guideline. If you think suing to get what you want is a solution, that the contract entitles you to win, you're naive.

10. Some people use litigation as both a business strategy and a profit center. If someone has deeper pockets than you, you're not on an equal footing.

11. The real world is very different from books. In other words, there are very few professors who can succeed in the real world. Theory is one thing, practice is another.

12. Lawyers are worth every dollar you pay them. So choose wisely and don't expect a deal. You need an outside voice. Someone who knows the pitfalls.

13. News often isn't. It may be on the Business page, but frequently the corporation has a relationship with the journalist and wants a certain story told.

14. If you haven't been screwed, you haven't been in business. There's more than one way to fail, you learn lessons from your defeats, which is why so many want to hire those who've failed, because they've gained so much experience!

15. Nitpicking is for losers. If you can't let something go by, if you want the other party to live up to every letter of a contract, you're going to find yourself an outcast by the sidelines.

16. Winners see tomorrow as well as today. If you don't have the exit strategy in place when you're negotiating a deal, you're going to find yourself in an uncomfortable position down the line.

17. Those who give the best advice are the hardest to get to know, and the hardest to get to speak at length. The powerful don't want to know the powerless, there has to be an advantage in it for them, or else the response will be very brief.

18. Time is irreplaceable. Never waste someone else's. Make your pitch short and to the point and thank the other person for listening. You think you're explaining your point, ensuring success by going on at length, but the truth is the other person is rolling their eyes and looking at their watch, wondering how they can get out of this meeting and never ever speak with you again.

19. Most conference calls are a waste of time. Do your best to avoid them. If you're on one, talk only business and make it brief.

20. Respect your adversary/opponent. Treat people with dignity, dividends will follow.

21. Don't take you or your business too seriously. Make jokes.

22. Have fun. Work takes up too much of your time not to.

23. Break the rules. All the winners do. School is all about rules, which is why those who've done well in school rarely do well in business.


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Wednesday, April 09, 2014

HOPE FOR A NEW WORLD ~ IT'S GETTING BETTER DESPITE APPEARANCES

The other day, I was on an adventure, exploring a hidden area with some co-workers for a show we are creating. We wandered through the canyon and shared horror stories, but then it became clear that the mission was much deeper. Sorry for being so cryptic but I can't reveal what we were up to yet, but I can say this: What presented itself was an opportunity to share love and to help someone wake up. Every human being needs to be heard and understood. The human heart  is healed by love. When you actually stop to help someone, your chemistry changes. The airwaves change. That day, in this place of death, I felt a shift happening. It was a resurrection -- as if a hundred years of hell was suddenly reversed by one change of focus. And at that moment, a butterfly flew over our heads and circled around us. The butterfly is a metaphor for transformation and renewal. All we need is love.

Pray -- hold love in your heart for the victims of the stabbing at Franklin Regional High School in Pittsburgh and for every human being on earth who is suffering from loss, grief, financial loss, depression, war, trauma, illness or injury.

Something is happening. It's a hardening of our society - a crass materialism where how you look and what you wear and how you pose is all that matters.

I used to say that we were snowballing toward excess and chaos — but it had to happen this way..  that the insane greed, porn and violence in this country have gone so far over the top that there is only one way to go: UP.  We have made the taboo all too thrilling (and profitable) because of our Puritan ethic. We are a nation of masochists: criticizing each other, shaming each other, chastising each other for our "sins" and lusts —  which helps sales of porn and guns and the taboo.

Death has become sexier than sex, as I wrote in my article about 'extermination speaker' Ann Coulter.

But it had to happen this way. We had to reach a chaotic, criminally insane breaking point. And it might get worse before it gets better. We are so immature; we thrive on style over substance. And though we've had too much too soon, reason and sanity are returning, despite appearances. The physical picture, the so-called "reality" we see with our senses has very little to do with reality. Like the software inside a computer, it's what's invisible that counts: the underlying harmony, love and hope we all hold in our hearts. Our desire for justice, equality, peace and the common good. These are the principles that hold mankind together. These are spiritual qualities. It's a "thought universe" and thoughts make the world, as Ralph Waldo Emerson put it. 

After all the sex, drugs and rock and roll.. after all the crap and materialism -- where else can we go but up?  
THE GOOD 
I have experienced miracles firsthand. I know of many others who have had these experiences and in fact, there is an abundance of good happening in the world. but the key to seeing it is to believe it in advance. If you are a doubting Thomas you won't be able to see these things called miracles, which are actually natural laws. 
Every day, focus on the good around you and if you are suffering expect a miracle. Miracles are actually natural laws. God is LOVE, not an anthropomorphic (man-like being) sitting in the sky. Prayer is the invisbile transfer of love to another. This has nothing to do with religion. Religion can be soothing and kind and wonderful, but it's still a man-made institution that is flawed and corruptible. But GOD is in every heart. The Kingdom is within you. Love one another. There is no power greater than LOVE.




Tuesday, April 01, 2014

JOIN ME TO SUPPORT OUR TROOPS AND WOUNDED VETERANS in THE BIG RED CHALLENGE

#BE SOMEBODY

Join us and the #Go Pro Daredevils and Husker Helicopters, Men's Health Magazine in Lincoln April 26, 2014 for THE BIG RED CHALLENGE. Log on here and find out what it's all about:

http://bigredchallenge.com
http://bigredchallenge.com/what-we-do/expo/
https://www.facebook.com/bigredchallenge
http://bigredchallenge.com/what-we-do/









#Be Somebody & the Nebraska girls! With stars Tommy "Tiny" Lister from the hit films "Friday", "The Dark Knight" "The Fifth Element", Richard Pryor Jr. from the hit film "The Color Purple" and film and TV star Lydia Cornell from HBO's "Curb Your Enthusiasm" and her hit TV show with Ted Knight "Too Close For Comfort!" 

Sign up now Huskers and join our race to help our veterans!!!! April 26th...in Lincoln Nebraska! See American Hitmen perform from the hit show (America's Got Talent) and meet stars Lydia Cornell and Richard Pryor Jr.! As well as watch the GoPro Daredevils jump from Husker Helicopter!!!!!!!! Sign up today and run the race, and chase the cause to help our veterans!!!



The World's Most Exciting Job: GoPro Bomb Squad Skydiving



Kim Wolfe, owner of Husker Helicopter, has graciously donated his time and helicopter to the cause. He will be soaring up in the skies with the GoPro Bombsquad and also a few fans! Kim is a veteran himself and served in the Marine Corps. Learn more about Husker Helicopter here.

www.bigredchallenge.com





Special Guests


Lydia Cornell will be attending the race on April 26th to meet & greet runners, sign autographs and will be going up in the Husker Helicopter to fly with a few fans! Check out her bio here.


Richard Pryor Jr. will also be in attendance meeting and greeting runners. See his bio here.

Godshot for the day: If all you did was just look for things to appreciate, you would live a joyous, spectacular life.


Miscellaneous Facts about Lydia Cornell

John Conley, a disabled Marine combat vet, sent Lydia his Purple Heart for her courage in standing up to Ann Coulter's 'extermination speak' in her article “Death is Sexier than Sex.”

Cornell is a Synesthete. Many artists, musicians and writers (including V. Nabokov, John Mayer and David Hockney) have synesthesia -- and see colors when hearing sounds, and see numbers and letters in color. The World Symposium on Synesthesia convened in Belgium last year.
She started experiencing 11:11 in 1994, when she got sober, and had a “catastrophic spiritual awakening and transformation.

Lydia is producing several new TV shows; has a book series coming out and stars in indie films “Damage Done; Happy Holidaze from the Joneses; Cats Dancing on Jupiter, Venus Conspiracy, Moon Over Atlantis, Thug in Love, and more upcoming films. 
www.LydiaCornell.com 

Monday, March 31, 2014

Too Close for Comfort BACK ON THE AIR on TRIBUNE'S COMEDY CHANNEL "ANTENNA TV

Three’s Company and Too Close for Comfort Join Antenna TV on April 7


19th Feb, 2014 | Posted in Broadcasting

Come and knock on our door! Three’s Company and Too Close for Comfort Join Antenna TV’s schedule beginning April 7th.


Antenna TV, Tribune Broadcasting’s multicast network, which airs on 84 affiliates across the U.S. reaching 70% of TV households, will add Too Close for Comfort to the lineup weekdays 9-10am ET and 1-2am ET with Three’s Company airing 10-11am ET and 12-1am ET. On weekends, Three’s Company will air Saturday 7-8pm ET and Sunday 12-1am ET.


Three’s Company and Too Close for Comfort join Antenna TV’s lineup of classic favorites such as I Dream of Jeannie, Bewitched, Dennis the Menace, Father Knows Best, Bachelor Father, Hazel, The Partridge Family, Sanford and Son, Maude, Diff’rent Strokes, WKRP in Cincinnati, All in the Family, Good Times, The Three Stooges, Alfred Hitchcock Presents, The George Burns and Gracie Allen Show, The Jack Benny Program, The Adventures of Rin Tin Tin, Gidget, The Flying Nun, It Takes a Thief andAntenna TV Theater, a movie block featuring MGM and Sony movies.

About Antenna TV


Antenna TV (http://www.antennatv.tv/ ) launched on January 1, 2011 and is available as a digital multicast channel on 84 affiliates across the U.S. reaching 70% of TV households, including WPIX-TV (11.2) New York, KTLA-TV (5.2) Los Angeles, and WGN-TV (9.2) Chicago. For local station information please visit: http://antennatv.tv/interactive-affiliate-map/


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Wednesday, March 26, 2014

Brenda and Pilot Season

It's pilot season: I am mulling over several acting roles, and producing jobs -- including two reality shows and a hybrid reality comedy show that a producer approached me about. I am also about to start pre-production on my own indie film, and am co-starring in two prominent indie films coming up.

I am also excited about working on a TV series again.  So here are my DEMO REELS:

Lydia Cornell with Brenda Chiavarini, the amazing actress and mom-to-be!
LYDIA CORNELL COMEDY DEMO with HBO CURB    http://www.imdb.com/video/demo_reel/vi2899487513/


ORIGINAL DEMO REEL LIVE AT THE IMPROV:  ww.imdb.com/video/demo_reel/vi2952375065/


And then there's this live video I accidentally did on Jan. 5, 2014

SEX TALK at the HOLLYWOOD SHOW:

I'LL BE with MONSTERS THIS WEEKEND IN BURBANK ~ MONSTERPALOOZA IN A BOND OF SILK

This weekend, Saturday March 29, 2014 I'll be at MONSTERPALOOZA



I'll be discussing my 'Bond of Silk" MONSTERS filmmaking experience on the MONSTERS panel this Saturday at 1pm.  

Our moderator will now be the talented Ryan Turek, the Managing Editor of http://ShockTillYouDrop.com.  

Our panel Starts at 1:00pm on Saturday 3/29. 

Panel information:

MONSTERS PANEL PARTICIPANTS:
Michael Burnett SPFX Makeup Artist
Vincent Guastini SPFX Makeup Artist
Steve Johnson SPFX Makeup Artist
Rick Lazzarini SPFX Makeup Artist
Mitchell Galin Co-Producer
Ernest Farino Director
Lydia Cornell Star of "Bond of Silk"
John Massari Music Composer
Tony Cutrono Cinematographer 

WHERE:
Burbank Airport Hilton
2500 Hollywood Way
Burbank, CA 91505
(818) 843-6000

WHEN:
Saturday March 29, 2014 @ 1:00PM

MONSTERPALOOZA WEB SITE:

DON'T WORRY: ENTHUSIASM and COURAGE CHANGE YOUR BRAIN WAVES


Worry is ingratitude in advance. ~ Who said that?  
Enthusiasm and courage actually change your brain waves, which means you can sculpt your own reality if you'll just STOP when you are in panic or stress, take a time-out and breathe.  Stop and center yourself. Mentally claim dominion over your reality.
Fear is "False Evidence Appearing Real" and you have nothing to fear. I have been through a lot of stress lately with my mother being rushed to ER, and with our sweet dog Chazzy's sudden death. Also, the fear of financial insecurity that seems to pervade all our lives as we navigate the new economy -- I'm accidentally running a sober recovery house. (More on that later.)
But I've experienced absolute transformation when I surrender my worries and fears to a Higher Power. I call this force GOOD or God, but you can call it LOVE or Nature. The important thing is to realize you are not alone, and you are loved. Use all of us - picture ALL your loved ones as your HP (Higher Power.)  Picture all the good guys of mankind as your higher power.
I have spine-tingling, first hand evidence that miracles are natural laws of the universe. What I call "a miracle" is simply the amazing secret knowledge that there is a law of nature that actually rescues me when I am stressed or in fear. It actually heals my body when I depend on this power. When I relax and 'let go" and pray (which means I yell HELP) or silently cry out to the Universe for help — help always comes.  And when I help someone else, my suffering vanishes.
 "Share your pain you cut it in half; share your joy, you double it."
AND don't forget this: "You can be attractive even if you’re not good looking because if you radiate love you attract people! (That’s a joke I wrote.) Scientists have discovered that brain activity produces waves that are measurable according to your level of serenity or agitation. And Einstein said, “No problem can be solved on the same level it was created on.” In other words, you can't fight fire with fire; you can't cure alcoholism with more alcohol; you can’t start a war to create peace — you have to go to a higher level — a spiritual or diplomatic solution. Or as George Carlin put it, “Fighting for peace is like screwing for virginity.”

PLEASE join me, TIny Lister, Richard Pryor, Jr. and our wounded veterans and thousands of amazing people in THE BIG RED CHALLENGE in Lincoln, Nebraska on April 26, 2014.

Please sign on and donate whatever you can to show your support of our military veterans who have lost limb and leg and more.. our HEROES!!

Richard Pryor, Jr. and Lydia Cornell signing autographs and riding in the Husker Helicopter to support our troops in Lincoln, NE for the BIG RED CHALLENGE 

Richard Pryor, Jr. and Lydia Cornell signing autographs and riding in the Husker Helicopter at THE EXPO for the BIG RED CHALLENGE 

Check out our commercial which is now in movie theaters:




Veterans at Home, on a Mission of Compassion 

By TINA ROSENBERG

Rachel Gutierrez was an army sergeant in Iraq, but back home in Phoenix she leads a platoon. At 2:30 in the morning last Oct. 18, members of the 1st Platoon Phoenix   gathered at an all-night McDonalds in a bad neighborhood downtown. Their mission was to comb the streets for chronically homeless veterans (who tend to sleep in groups but scatter during the day) and register them to get housing and other services.


Challenged Athletes Foundation:

http://www.challengedathletes.org/site/c.4nJHJQPqEiKUE/b.6449023/k.BD6D/Home.htm

http://bigredchallenge.com

Pain is inevitable, suffering is optional.  

(HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO MY SON. I LOVE YOU JACK!)


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