Sunday, May 12, 2013

ABUSED AND ABANDONED WOMEN

The sudden release of the three women and one child from the clutches of predator Ariel Castro in Cleveland, Ohio last week, has revived interest in other missing persons' cases. Before I get into that, I need to tell you all what happened to me last week. 

First of all, I was granted a permanent restraining order against the stalker, very dangerous convicted felon who has terrorized me for over 10 months. 

Last Wednesday, I was at "The Jon Lovitz Podcast Theater" at Universal City as a guest on "The Joanie Show" with Joan Fagan and Beaumont Bacon. Joanie is the creator of the national smash hit "Three Blonde Moms" a comedy road-show touring sensation.  

As I left Universal to run errands in Valley Village, I walked down Laurel Canyon near Magnolia, and was almost accosted by a predator. The street was deserted because it was so hot that day. A man in a blacked-out BMW, pulled up to the crosswalk just as I was crossing, and shouted "Hey Beautiful! Come here." I had been subconsciously nervous from watching the news all week about Ariel Castro, and when I looked at the man's face he just seemed to be up to no good. He had a baseball hat on backwards and looked like a gang member in a stolen car. 

I kept walking and ignored him. I stopped to look into a store, which happend to be a frame and mirror store. The guy pulled his car over to the curb and stopped. He shouted to me: "Hey, I said COME HERE!"  I got scared for a minute and ducked into the store. When I thought he was gone I came back outside but he had pulled a few feet up so I couldn't see him. He again asked me to come over to his car. He said, "Hey lemme ask you a question, I need directions... "  I kept walking and shouted out, "I can't, I'm married."  Then I ducked into an art supply store. 



Louis Cramer, Trey Cramer, Scott Cramer of Fallbrook ROLLING HILLS ESTATES: YOUR MOTHER IS ALIVE.  SHE LOVES YOU AND HAS BEEN TRYING FOR YEARS TO SEE YOU. EVERYTHING KIRBY CRAMER TOLD YOU ABOUT YOUR MOTHER IS A LIE: PLEASE FIND OUT THE TRUTH. 

Disclaimer: Everything printed below was reported to me by police, hospitals, neighbors, shelters and is my understanding and opinion of events: 

DISCLAIMER: All of the words about Kirby Cramer were told to me by the police, Cheri, the D.A. and the Domestic Violence Shelter. 

"I've been trying to help my friend Cheri Hall Cramer, the mother of Louis Cramer, Trey Cramer, and Scott Cramer, reuinte with her children. Cheri is a domestic abuse survivor who was reportedly left for dead by her husband Kirby Cramer. According to reports, her husband tried to get rid of his wife and then covered his crime by making sure she was broke and homeless. He apparently spread horrible lies about her to everyone in Fallbrook, Rolling Hills. He pretended that his wife left him, that she was insane and that "he" was the victim!  He never stopped telling this story until he had even brainwashed his own kids.  Apparently, even the guard at the gate believed Kirby Cramer's story. Everyone in Fallbrook believed that Cheri bashed her own head in with a hammer, and not her husband. 

According to hospital records and eyewitness reports, Cheri suffered a brain aneurysm. Her husband threw her out on the street, and later after a lengthy court battle in which the Cramer family bribed judges and spent a fortune trying to make Cheri look insane, Cheri was assigned to a group therapy class. It was in this group that she was stalked and captured by a predator who locked her up in his apartment and put a camera on her. 

In October of 2009, we rescued her with the help of police. Her children still don't know that she is alive. She had a brain aneurysm and was so debilitated, she has been without a home. She has just been wandering from place to place, trying to stay alive long enough to see her children. Cheri is blonde, sweet, brilliant, and a graduate of Cal Poly. She was once a happy mother who lived in a lavish estate and home schooled her children. I have never met a sweeter soul. No one should have to go through what Cheri has gone through.  

All she wants is to let her children know she is alive, but she is scared he will finallly kill her and she has no resources to even get into the gated community where her children live. She is supposed to see her children, but her husband made it impossible by threatenting her and by buying off people to prevent her from getting near them.  Her husband abused the court system with endless appeals and managed to pay off so many people, he eventually bankrupted her. Even the D.A. said, "you are not a minority. The case is not worth it." 

Cheri's ex-husband Kirby Cramer Jr. is very powerful. His father is multi-millionaire Kirby Cramer, Sr., the owner of Hazeltine Labs, a powerful California pharmaceutical company. He is also an ex-CIA agent. 

Here is what I have been told and what I discovered from reading the police report and talking to witnesses. There has been a cover up of this crime. I have been told: "With the help of some sinister members of the Vista County Family Court system in San Diego, and with the help of some very corrupt members of law enforcement in the lavish gated community of Fallbrook, Rollling Hills Estates (where KKK member Tom Metzger was once mayor), Kirby Cramer JR. managed to cover up his crimes (the police report states that according to her injuries Cheri Hall Cramer was "hit in the back of the head with the claw end of a hammer."  

According to my sources, the only person in the house who could have done this was Cheri's husband Kirby Cramer. Cheri suffered a brain aneurysm. Her husband put an armed guard outside her hospital door and would not allow anyone, not even Cheri's own mother or children, to visit her. Kirby obviously didn't want Cheri's version of the story (the truth) to get out. 

From the police reports and other witnesses, it appears that Kirby Cramer managed to lie and cover his crimes and invent horrfiic stories to make his wife look psychotic and insane. He has spent years turning everyone in the community against his wife, while at the same time, making sure he stripped her of all her possessions and literally threw her away on the sidewalk. He bodily removed her from the home and put her pillows and blankets in the street the very night the hospital released her, at his request. She was released early from the hospital. 

Her children have never seen her since this horrific incident. 

SCOTT CRAMER, Louis and Trey: YOUR MOTHER IS ALIVE. PLEASE HELP US CALL YOU. 
SHE LOVES YOU AND HAS BEEN TRYING FOR YEARS TO SEE YOU. 


There is much more to this story - things I know that would chill you to the bone.  But I don't want to say anything until we can reunite Cheri with her children. 

For the record, I know Cheri Hall Cramer personally; she is a wonderful person. I housed her in my home for over 8 months. I have never met a sweeter, more gentle soul. She suffers from grand mal epileptic seizures. That is her only "crime."  And it's also the convenient excuse her husband apparently used to make it look like she "fell."  But the police report says she did not fall; she was bludgeoned. 
Is it because she is blonde and doesn't fit the stereotype of the typical domestic abuse survivor (in other words, she is not a minority, and therefore her blondeness would gain her no sympathy with a jury or judge.

I am reporting on this and another case I am helping with. The article coincides with a book I'm writing, but not the COMEDY book. This article will be posted soon here: THE ABUSE OF WOMEN

The sexual objectification of women has contributed to the sex crimes and abductions.

I also want to do a story on suicides on the increase due to the loss of hope and financial problems.

We all must keep our hope. Please don't give up. If I could take everyone into my home and hold you and comfort you, I would. I am so sad that people in middle age are giving up hope because they have no place to turn. The hardest thing is to lose your ability to make a living and to suffer in silence.

My younger brother was one of these people.

I love you all. It is time to help each other and learn what we came here for. It's time to change the world.

Meanwhile, the key to happiness is to give, give, give to others. Generosity and helping others is the key to happiness.

All my suffering is a result of thinking about myself too much.
Blessings and MORE LATER

xoxoxo


Friday, April 19, 2013

SUPERHEROES: CHEERS FOR BOSTON'S FINEST: SWAT TEAMS, BOSTON PD, WATERTOWN PD, MASS STATE PD, US CITIZENS AND REDDIT UNIVERSE! THANK YOU!

I was spellbound by the magnificent job that the Boston, Watertown PD as well as ATF and FBI did in capturing the 2nd suspect today. 


Please read and comment on the capture, our SUPERHEROES and the victims including: Newlyweds Patrick Downes and Jessica Kensky both lost legs in the blast (see below at end)

Thank you 

Love to you all. Please let's start to be kinder to each other. Young people need to see the hope and love and inspiration in life and not feel so hopeless. I can't believe my son had to grow up in a world of 9/11 and now this -- but thank Goodness for the heroes, the strangers making tourniquets, everyone helping each other...  and the millions of bloggers and kids on REDDIT.COM giving hope and tips and listening to police scanners. 




God Bless Sean Collier, the 26-year old M.I.T. police officer that was assassinated last night by the Boston bomber. Massachusetts Institute of Technology police officer Sean Collier, 26, of Somerville, Mass., was shot and killed in the line of duty.


Rest in Peace: the victims of the Boston Marathon bombings: Martin Richard, Krystle Campbell, Lingzi Lu






WATERTOWN, Mass. - Celebrations erupted in suburban Boston, downtown and beyond Friday night as the capture of the remaining marathon bombing suspect was announced in a tweet from police.
In the Watertown neighborhood where 19-year-old Dzhokhar Tsarnaev engaged in a firefight with police while hiding out in a parked boat, dozens of people at a police barricade cheered and applauded as law enforcement officers and emergency responders left the scene.
"Never in my wildest dreams did I think that this would result in a shootout in Watertown," said Sheamus McGovern, of Belmont, Mass., who was among the crowd of people gathered outside Mount Auburn Hospital, where Tsarnaev was taken after his capture.

Early Friday morning, 26-year-old Tamerlan Tsarnaev was killed in a gun battle and car chase during which he and his younger brother hurled explosives at police from a stolen car, authorities said.
During the getaway attempt, the brothers killed an MIT policeman and severely wounded another officer, authorities said. The younger brother managed to escape and was found in the boat about a mile away hours later.
McGovern had been startled overnight Friday during a when he heard "what sounded like firecrackers, last night after one, and then pure bedlam." He could hear the helicopters overhead all day.
"It's just a huge relief to be able to get outdoors. Another day of that, I don't want to start getting angry,"
The jubilation was widespread. The mayor of Boston, which was largely paralyzed during the manhunt Friday, tweeted, "We got him!" And at the home of the New York Mets, fans leapt to their feet and cheered when the news spread during a game against theWashington Nationals.
Hundreds of people marched down Commonwealth Avenue, chanting "USA" and singing the Red Sox anthem "Sweet Caroline" as they headed toward Boston Common. Police blocked traffic along part of the street to allow for the impromptu parade.
Earlier, the mood was somber. On Boylston Street, three blocks from the site of the marathon explosions on Monday, several dozen people gathered almost in complete silence. Some were crying.
Boston University student Aaron Wengertsman, 19, wrapped himself in an American flag as a silent crowd gathered. He was on the marathon route a mile from the finish line when the bombs exploded.


World flocks to funding sites for victims of Boston Marathon blasts

Strangers the world over step up in droves to boost crowdfunding efforts for severely injured victims of this week's Boston Marathon bombings.



 


The Bucks for Bauman project is aiming to raise $300,000.
(Credit: Screenshot by Leslie Katz/CNET)
Crowdfunding sites set up by friends and families of the Boston bombing victims are giving the world a way to help. And the world is stepping up.
As of this writing, Bucks for Bauman on GoFundMe has raised more than $192,000 in two days for Jeff Bauman, a 27-year-old marathon spectator who lost both legs to the blasts. Bauman also reportedly helped ID the suspects from his hospital bed.
"Medical bills are going to start rolling in, let's get a head start on helping out Bauman and his family! Every dollar counts!!" reads an introduction by Brooke Gibbs, who started the site. It's just one of a number of crowdfunding efforts that have sprung up this week to aid Boston Marathon bombing victims through grassroots campaigns -- and have collectively drawn more than $1 million in a matter of days.

Ann and Eric Whalley, residents of Charlestown, Mass., were seriously injured in Monday's bomb blasts.
(Credit: Ann & Eric Whalley Recovery Fund)
Another GoFundMe site, the Celeste & Sydney Recovery Fund, has as of this writing raised more than $396,000 of its $500,000 goal to aid Celeste Corcoran and teenage daughter Sydney. Celeste lost both legs in the bombing and Sydney suffered severe shrapnel injuries to one of her legs.
"There is a long road ahead -- both physically and emotionally -- and we're hoping to relieve some of the financial burden by raising funds in their name," says Celeste's cousin Alyssa Carter, who started the fund.
The donation page includes updates on the pair; gratefully, a post from yesterday reports that "Celeste and Sydney are gaining strength and improving every day." Pictures include shots of Sydney's hospital visits with Matt Smith, who kneeled to help her stanch the blood after the blast, and with actor Bradley Cooper, who stopped by to lend cheer to the victims and their loved ones.
After newlyweds Patrick Downes and Jessica Kensky each lost a left leg below the knee in the blasts, friends of the couple started a crowdfunding campaign through Give Forward to raise money for surgeries and rehabilitation costs. So far, it has raised more than $438,000 toward a $500,000 goal.

Matt Smith visits Sydney Corcoran in the hospital for the first time since helping save her life. "We are so incredibly grateful to him, and he was as gracious in person as you'd expect a real-life superhero to be," loved ones of the mother and daughter say on the fundraising page.
(Credit: Celeste & Sydney Recovery Fund)
Much of that outpouring of support can be attributed to total strangers who were touched by the newlyweds' story and looking to help. Contributor Leanne Hartmann writes, "Dear Patrick and Jess -- I don't know you personally, but when a member of the BC (Boston College) community is affected, we are all affected. Wishing you all the best for your recovery and as you move ahead. You will be in our thoughts and prayers."
Crowdfunding has become a go-to means of helping out in a crisis, as in the case of Hurricane Sandy recovery, as well as contributing to smaller causes, like building a Tesla museum. Indeed, in an event as traumatic as this one, the sites give strangers a chance to personally connect with the victims by sharing money and well wishes -- and seeing immediate results as updates and donor comments accrue and monetary totals inch up by the minute. The contributors aren't just adding to an anonymous fund; they're stepping for a brief moment into the lives of people who are surviving through unimaginable trauma and giving them a virtual helping hand.
They're offering real-world help, too, such as the fellow amputee who offered via Bucks for Bauman to provide Bauman with free medical supplies.
"You are a brave guy," a donor writes to Bauman. "I wish you all the best to overcome this! Best regards from Germany." Writes another, "To be honest, I have been haunted by your image for the past five days. For some reason on your face I see a calmness and a strength that is inspiring to me. I wish I could do more to help and pray for your fast recovery."
Another Give Forward campaign for longtime Massachusetts residents Ann and Eric Whalley has surpassed $83,000 on its way to the $100,000 goal. Both 65-year-olds were injured while cheering on the runners, though Eric is faced with brain trauma as well as external injuries. Friends of the family started the fundraiser, saying, "As friends of the Whalley family, we are raising a recovery fund to help ease the financial burden of this devastating incident on the family."
While the huge outpouring from as far away as Russia, China, England, and Sweden serves as a heartening reminder of humanity's kindness and generosity, tragedy can, sadly, also be fertile ground for exploitation and scams. Malware has reportedly been spotted using this week's events as bait, and thedomains.com reports that more than 100 new (and potentially sketchy) domains related to the attacks have suddenly sprung up. Although we've yet to hear of any major scams related to collection efforts for the victims, crowdfunding experts recommend doing some basic research and even reaching out directly to campaign organizers before donating.
In response to queries about the funds for the Whalley family, an update was posted saying, "Regarding the amount, the reality is that there are a huge number of financial burdens that come from a situation like this, beyond immediate expenses." The update emphasizes that all money raised will go to the family and that any leftover funds, if there are any, will be distributed to other victims.

Newlyweds Patrick Downes and Jessica Kensky both lost legs in the blast.
(Credit: Help for Patrick and Jess)
Crave writer Eric Mack contributed to this report.