Don't Panic: Good Always Wins. It's okay to be melancholy but not let it consume us. Progress is the law of life, and evil always annihilates itself.
There is a deeply creative beauty, harmony and intelligence at work in nature & the universe, giving birth to everything we see and experience.
The universe is so benevolent; it’s so joyful, so playful, it wants to help you with everything.
Einstein said that the most important question you can ask: is the universe friendly?
Yes, this is a benevolent universe. The universe is on your side. If you simply BELIEVE this plane of existence is friendly your life will improve. Adopt this theory: it will change your life.
In chaos theory, when you go up to a higher perspective, you can see a stunning pattern forming. In the presence of love, anything unlike love must come up to the surface to be seen and then healed. Like a volcano or a pimple, it needs to explode to create new land. 😂
We are creating a better world through our growing pains— trudging, sifting and routing out the things that don't work. Thoughts have substance, and we manifest those things that occupy our thoughts. Our loving attention to 'the good'— to things that are going well—alters our physical reality. According to quantum physics, we create our reality. We create the world with our judgement and intentions. The good news is that there is no power greater than Love.
"What you think about grows," so be careful to watch what you allow into your mind.
If someone has wronged you, stolen from you, locked you out of your home — do the basic footwork to right the wrongs: report any crime to the police, the Better Business Bureau, Legal Aid, the Legal Defense fund, Renters' Rights, or whatever help you can find in your community. Find temporary housing, go to a Food Bank, take care of the basics for your family. If you have children, teach them that they are safe no matter what, and that every new challenge is a new adventure. Teach them that they can survive whatever challenges life puts in their path. Teach them to be resilient.
But after you've done all the human footwork and everything you can do in the mortal realm, surrender. Act 'as if' there is a loving power greater than yourself that created all this beauty. Let go and trust in the goodness of people. Look for the helpers.
There are public libraries where you can sit all day with your children and research the internet for help. There are community centers that will help you find resources. There are missions and churches with temporary housing. There are parks with free meals for senior citizens. There are restaurants you can go to and just sit in a booth with a glass of water while you re-group and make calls. There is a Social Services Department. There are countless 12-step meetings in every city, where you can share your woes. There are kind people everywhere, willing to lend a hand when asked.
But after doing the footwork and taking care of the basics, let go and let God, or the Universe, or your higher power take the reins. Trust that you will be taken care of as the lilies of the field are.
Just try it. Try not worrying for one day and see what happens.
I told my friend, who's a psychoanalyst, "I think I'll stop worrying and analyzing my problems for a change.” She bit my head off: "Are you crazy? You have to analyze your problems, or they might go away!"
Exactly. And it helps to remember that the word ‘analysis’ is derived from the word ‘anal,’ as in anal-retentive. LOL
It does no good to dwell in the misery of your own thoughts for long, or to keep asking "Why? Why did this happen to me?” Sometimes we fall down in order to learn to get back up. And to learn self-reliance. It's an inside job. Sometimes there is no human power that can save us; we have to find a higher power ...We have to go within and lean on a higher power. We have to go within and find our higher power.
It helps to realize that everyone is fallible, and no person or system is perfect. Here in the U.S. we somehow have the idea that the trains will run on time, the water will flow from the pipes, and people will treat us fairly. We have a sense of entitlement. People who are supposed to do the right thing often fail us. Banks fail, the stock market fails. People break the law and the speed limit.
So instead of stewing or wasting time plotting revenge, or stressing yourself into a heart attack, realize your time here on Earth is a precious gift. Move forward out of the "blame zone." Instantly reverse your thought. Choose to feel differently and react differently.
CHOOSE YOUR NEXT STEP BASED ON JOY; HOW TO FIND JOY NO MATTER WHAT IS HAPPENING IN THE OUTSIDE WORLD. THE WORLD CAN BE COLLAPSING, SCREAMING, FREAKING OUT, BUT YOU ARE CALM. CHOOSE TO FEEL GOOD. CHOOSE TO LAUGH.
Shake it off. Wear the world as a loose garment. Then see what happens.
For me, having a pity party is the fastest way to hell. Instead I like to look up, see that the sky isn't falling, and realize it could be worse. Then find a way to laugh at myself. This too shall pass.
Take a deep breath and accept that this is what is happening for whatever reason, at this moment. What doesn't kill you makes you stronger and wiser. We don't have control or power over other people's screw-ups or pathology, lack of morals or unkindness. We only have control over our reactions. We can choose to think good thoughts even about our enemies and not resist anything going on at any moment. Disease and stress (which form biochemical pathways to disease) are created when we are in resistance to the moment: when we are wanting something that is not happening or trying to prevent something from happening or not being in agreement with reality. Acceptance is the key to serenity.
Cathy Gelbart finally accepted that the shopping cart was going to always be in her way in the elevator until the day she decided, this is a holy moment, "this is my daily duty -- to lovingly remove the shopping cart for others and to stop being annoyed at the faceless, nameless asshole who leaves the shopping cart in the elevator every single time they go shopping."
Cathy began looking forward to the shopping cart. It was her new mission, an act of selfless love to move it out of the way, and not to react or be impatient. She began to laugh at herself for the way she had behaved all year — the way she had cursed and kicked the shopping cart; the hours of wasted energy spent imagining a confrontation with the selfish jerk who put it there.
So she changed her attitude and began to look forward to the shopping cart each day. And the minute she did this, the shopping cart never appeared again.
True story.
If we resist or fight or spend time retaliating, brooding, worrying, screaming, fighting anyone or anything (including the System, the Powers that be, the Republicans, the banks, the government, the insurance companies, the economy, the law) we stay entangled in a toxic relationship with the very people we most want to disengage from. We stay stuck, or as Emmet Fox says, "tethered to our enemies, by a ball and chain, like a prisoner. The more we rehearse our grievances over and over in our minds, blaming and shaming and regretting and cursing them -- the more power we give them with our thoughts. We are only hurting ourselves; it's our stress levels that affect our health. Long-term anger is not a healthy emotional state to linger in. Forgive and move on.
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THANK YOU!! Great article. I need this right now.
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