Wednesday, September 15, 2010

COMPASSION: DOMESTIC ABUSE AND THE AMERICAN WOMAN



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DOMESTIC ABUSE AND THE AMERICAN WOMAN

Are women expendable and repaceable? Are we just sex objects until we're 25, and then considered over-the-hill and useless? I have spent years mentoring teenage boys and girls, and this seems to be the prevailing viewpoint; this is what they are telling me.

A 7th grade girl at my kids' school was caught in the boys' room performing a sexual act on an 8th grade boy. A gifted young Indian girl has decided to become sexually active because she doesn't think she's pretty (or blonde!) enough to get a boyfriend. All the preteens I know are obsessed with sex, and using language that makes me faint. These kids are aspiring to become lap dancers. When did pole-dancing become a degree-requiring profession! Sex, sex and more sex - this is the prevailing value in our culture these days. Thanks to Britney, Miley, Lindsay, Paris, Kim Kardashian and TMZ! Actually  we must thank MTV and advertising. My motto is: All human suffering is caused by Victoria's Secret! 

That's why I'm trying to become a virgin again in more ways than one. How can you find your soul in a pornographic world? I tell these girls that mystery is appealing; that keeping your clothes on is provocative. We don't need to create any more men of entitlement. There is already an army of men cheating on their wives and using women like paper towels, as Tiger Woods did.

In our culture it seems that women are being sexually objectified more than ever. I am a product of the 80's, and as a sex symbol I had to dumb myself down to fit into Hollywood. I also had to wear short-shorts and skimpy costumes on TV and pose in a sequined bikini to promote Too Close for Comfort.  

We are obsessed with sex in America in a very immature way. We have made something natural seem titillating and taboo because of our Puritan nature. Advertisers jumped on this, seeing the potential in creating a plot to keep women thin and insecure. I am not blaming men for all my problems, but they did invent makeup and war and high heels. Do you know the historical purpose of high heels?  To raise women up for easier insertion!  It's true! I'll tell you the history later.  

My son's friend Tommy, 14, came back from Europe this summer and said the people are so genuine there. He said they seem to value relationships more than "stuff" and looking "hot." My stepson is obsessed with having "cut abs" on Facebook. God Bless him. I have tried to tell him it's inner strength that matters, but he looked at me like I was an alien. 

I have been wondering if the greed era, circa 1980-2008, in which capitalism has been allowed to run amok -- is responsible for creating so many sociopaths and narcissists in our country. What are American values? What do we value?

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More on my personal experiences with domestic violence angle in the next issue.


13 comments:

  1. Yea,France sure is progressive...today they banned the wearing of Burquas in public....not that thats a bad thing.

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  2. Roseanne Barr and Phyllis Diller - burqas yes. Courteney Cox and Diane Lane - burqas no.

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  3. Burqas are horrible and a violation of civil rights.

    I do not condone anything oppressors do.

    But for some reason your team (tea partiers, Sara Palin) keeps trying to equate all Muslims with terrorism.

    Ignorance is the biggest problem in America.

    Osama Bin Laden and his al Qaeda sect of terrorists blew up the WTC because we had a U.S. air base on Saudi soil. Because Bush was thick as thieves with the Saudi Royal family.

    Bush quietly gave in to the demands of Bin Laden when he
    SHUT DOWN OUR BASE IN SAUDI ARABIA, which APPEASED OSAMA BIN LADEN.

    But he went to war against Iraq on a fake trumped up charge, lying with Cheney that Iraq had WMD and pretending that we were going to war against all Muslims -- and the ignorant ones believed it.

    All lies.

    And Cheney held secret meetings to divide up the oil with Exxon etc.

    Case closed.

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  4. And HALIBURTON (Cheney's company) were the main ones at fault for supplying a FAULTY pipe to BP that CAUSED THE BP explosion in the Gulf of Mexico.

    Haliburton (Cheney) cut corners to save money, cut labor costs by building shoddy pipes — as they did in Iraq, when they built shoddy sewer lines, which do not work even today.

    Haliburton (Cheney) moved to offshore countries like Mexico and Dubai to avoid paying U.S. taxes.

    Some American.

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  5. I wonder when the mother ship will be coming to pick up the friend of LC?

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  7. Lydia, I was just joking. Of course being forced to wear burqas is a bad thing.

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  8. Too much emphasis is placed on the wrapping instead of the human soul inside the package. Corporate America is partially to blame -- for example -- some Fortune 500 companies won't even think of hiring women unless they agree to wear heels. I consider these HR types to be the true heels. Last time I checked, what I wore on my feet didn't seem to increase my typing speed or my wit.

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  9. Too much emphasis is placed on the wrapping instead of the human soul inside the package. Corporate America is partially to blame -- for example -- some Fortune 500 companies won't even think of hiring women unless they agree to wear heels. I consider these HR types to be the true heels. Last time I checked, what I wore on my feet didn't seem to increase my typing speed or my wit.

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